Let’s talk about rock star romances. Because I’m obsessed, you’re obsessed, and let’s face it — we’re all a little weak in the knees for a brooding rock star with a soft spot for that one person who can break through their carefully crafted exterior. Sound familiar? (Rockstar Regret, anyone?)
If you’ve ever wondered why this trope pulls us in so completely, grab your tea (or wine — no judgment here), and let’s break it down.
1. The Allure of a Rising Star
Unlike the seasoned, jaded stars we see in some romances, there’s something irresistible about watching a band just on the cusp of their big break. Nick Lewis and Lover's Knot are starting to make waves, but they’re not quite household names yet. It’s this in-between phase — the grit and determination, the hope and uncertainty — that adds a different kind of magic to Rockstar Regret. You feel like you’re growing with them, experiencing those highs for the first time right alongside Nick.
2. The Music That Speaks What They Can’t
If there’s one thing that rock star romances do better than any other trope, it’s the way they use music to express what words alone can’t. Love, regret, longing — it’s all poured into songs that make you feel every heartbeat and hesitation.
In Chasing Alys, Ryan Evans didn’t just tell Alys how he felt; he wrote songs about it, he serenaded her, dedicating “Run” to her during a live performance. That moment captured everything — the vulnerability, the raw emotion, the kind of love that demands to be heard.
And then there’s James in Winning Nia. His songs weren’t just declarations of love — they were apologies, promises, and the kind of emotional confessions that only someone with a guitar in hand can make.
These moments make us fall for the heroes all over again because they remind us that music isn’t just entertainment — it’s a language of the heart. Ryan and James didn’t just love their women; they immortalised them, turning their feelings into melodies that will echo forever.
3. The Fantasy of Being Chosen
We’ve all had that one famous crush. The one we daydreamed about meeting in a coffee shop or bumping into at a gig. It’s the dream of catching their eye, having them see something in us that they can’t ignore — and rockstar romance brings that fantasy to life.
In Marrying Olivia, Olivia Monroe isn’t just a fan of Lewis Davies; she grew up with his posters on her wall and his songs playing on repeat. When a chance meeting at a bar puts her face-to-face with the bassist of The Brightside, sparks fly immediately. Lewis doesn’t see her as just another opening act — he sees her. Their connection is electric, undeniable, and leads straight to a whirlwind Vegas wedding. Olivia isn’t just living the dream of meeting her celebrity crush — she’s marrying him.
4. The Unpredictable Thrill of Life on Tour
Life on tour isn’t just a backdrop — it’s a character all on its own. The long nights, crowded tour buses, and adrenaline-fuelled performances create a unique intensity that pulls us in. It’s unpredictable, fast-paced, and filled with moments that make us dream of what it’d be like to be part of that world.
In Daring Ceri, Ceri Daniels’ carefully planned life gets turned upside down when she’s swept into her rockstar ex-husband Alex’s world. Joining his tour throws them into close proximity, forcing them to confront their feelings while balancing the pressures of fame. Love and life on tour are anything but predictable, and that’s why we’re obsessed.
5. The Brooding Rockstar with a Heart of Gold
Ah, the brooding rockstar. He’s aloof, guarded, and maybe a little grumpy—but the right person cracks his armour wide open. We can’t help but swoon when the cocky musician reveals that deep down, he’s just as vulnerable as the rest of us.
Ryan Evans in Chasing Alys is the perfect example. Sure, he’s confident on stage, but when it comes to Alys? She leaves him completely out of his depth. Watching him fumble, fall, and ultimately bare his heart to her reminds us why we love this trope so much. It’s the juxtaposition of swagger and softness that makes these heroes irresistible.
6. The Juxtaposition of Ordinary and Extraordinary
One of the most compelling parts of rockstar romances is the contrast between the two worlds our characters inhabit. There’s the extraordinary — the fame, the fans, the stage lights — and then there’s the ordinary — the quiet, grounded moments that remind us what really matters.
In Rockstar Regret, Nick Davies is living the dream: a record deal, months on tour, and a band that’s finally making waves. But when he comes home, all of that fades in the face of a woman who doesn’t care about who he’s becoming, only who he was to her. Cerys forces Nick to confront his past and his demons, reminding him that love isn’t about the spotlight or the crowds; it’s about honesty, vulnerability, and showing up, even when it’s hard.
7. The Grand Gestures That Prove It’s Real
Rockstars are no strangers to taking big risks, but when they fall in love, their grand gestures hit even harder. These aren’t just about sweeping someone off their feet — they’re about proving they’ll do whatever it takes to make love work, no matter the obstacles.
In Marrying Olivia, Lewis Davies leaves the familiarity of the tour and runs the gauntlet of Olivia’s small-town community. Despite knowing her nosy neighbours are sending him on a wild goose chase, Lewis doesn’t stop. He takes every wrong turn, follows every false lead, all to find Olivia and show her that he’s all in. It’s not about proving his worth to the town — it’s about proving his love to Olivia.
This kind of grand gesture makes us melt because it’s not about fame or flashy romance — it’s about showing up, putting in the effort, and being all in when it matters most.
8. The Found Family Vibes
One of the most beautiful parts of rockstar romances is the sense of family that goes beyond blood. Bands aren’t just a group of musicians — they’re a messy, loyal, sometimes infuriating family that’s always there when it counts. And when the heroine steps into that world, she’s not just falling for the rockstar; she’s finding her place in a new, fiercely protective tribe.
Whether it’s the teasing banter backstage, the late-night pep talks, or the unspoken support when things get tough, these found families remind us that love isn’t just about two people — it’s about the people who surround them and cheer them on. It’s in the way bandmates step in to help fix a mistake, offer a shoulder to lean on, or quietly celebrate their successes from the sidelines.
9. The Angst That Makes the HEA So Much Sweeter
The beauty of rockstar romances is the delicious angst — the miscommunications, the moments of self-doubt, and the longing that builds tension with every page. It’s those moments where you feel the characters’ pain and root for them to figure things out that make the happy ending so much more rewarding.
In Chasing Alys, the tension comes from Alys’s refusal to let herself fall for Ryan. After being burned by a past relationship, she’s guarded, hesitant to trust again, and determined not to lose herself to another man. Ryan, who’s used to winning people over easily, struggles with how deeply Alys gets under his skin. Watching him put himself out there — writing songs for her, chasing her when she pulls away — and seeing Alys fight her own feelings creates the kind of slow-burn angst we can’t get enough of. It’s their journey through vulnerability and uncertainty that makes their eventual HEA so satisfying.
10. The Power of Redemption
Rockstar romances don’t shy away from flawed characters, and that’s why we love them. These stories aren’t about perfect heroes — they’re about messy, complicated people learning from their mistakes and proving they’re capable of more.
In Rockstar Regret, Nick Davies doesn’t come home as a changed man. He’s still grappling with his choices, his guilt, and the pain he’s carried since Gareth’s death. But instead of avoiding the people and memories that hold him accountable, he stays. He faces Cerys, who refuses to let him off the hook or allow him to hide behind his fame.
Nick’s redemption isn’t about grand gestures or sweeping declarations. It’s about the quiet moments — sitting at the kitchen table, going through Gareth’s belongings, and finally confronting the grief and guilt he’s tried to outrun.
These kinds of stories remind us that redemption isn’t about being perfect. It’s about showing up, doing the hard work, and proving that love and forgiveness are worth fighting for.
Rockstar romances pull us in because they’ve got it all — drama, passion, and love that feels larger than life. But at the heart of every story, it’s not the fame or the fans that matter. It’s the relationships, the struggles, and the moments that remind us why we believe in love in the first place.
If you’re craving a story with all of this and more, don’t forget that Rockstar Regret releases on February 20th. Nick and Cerys’s story will have you rooting for second chances and love that’s worth fighting for.